Hi Friends, let’s chat about what I hope to read this Spring.

Yours In Scandal by Lauren Layne

Lauren Layne must’ve known I needed a new series after I read and loved her Central Park Pact series. Yours In Scandal is expected to release on March 10th and is the romance between Robert Davenport, New York’s youngest mayor, recently named Citizen magazines, Man of the Year who is aiming to bid for the government seat and Adeline Baker-the daughter of his opponent. Yours In Scandal sounds like it will be perfect for spring reading.

The Anti-Honeymoon by Bethany Michaels

Expected to release on March 16th, The Anti-Honeymoon by Bethany Michaels  is the romance between Jenna and Zack. Jenna’s fiancé is making their wedding day into a publicity stunt so she decides screw this! She should’ve never given him the time of day anyway, and ditches him. Her getaway driver is her now ex’s former business partner, Zack and it sounds like they take advantage of the already planned honeymoon, while switching things up a bit; rather than couples yoga, they take kick boxing classes  and choose pizza instead of five star dining!  It sounds so much fun and there is something about starting over, something new that feels perfect for Spring.

Destination Wedding by Diksha Basu

I was very surprised and grateful to be approved for Destination Wedding on Netgalley. It doesn’t release until June, but it is at the top of my list for reading this Spring. Destination Wedding follows our heroine Tina and it sounds like she wants to belong, but is in the midst of figuring out where. Does she want to be in India or America? Brooklyn or Bombay? NOT PICTURED: me totally freaking out, excited to read this book! My fingers are crossed that it is full of Indian culture. I love the premise so much, because EVEN AS A 30 SOMETHING..SAME SAME SAME! I think we need more stories that reflect the idea of not really having things figured out or knowing where your place is.

Matzah Ball Surprise by Laura Brown

Gaby needs a date to her family’s Passover dinner so she asks this guy at the gym, Levi. I am so ready to dive into this romance. A Jewish heroine? Sign me up! I have yet to read a romance with a Jewish character and I need to right my wrongs. I am missing out am so excited that this will be my first. Levi is the hot guy at the gym, who also happens to be deaf. The cover to this is adorable and the premise of this story, the inclusion in this story just makes me so happy. I am loving the diversity I am seeing with 2020 releases. My fingers (and toes) are crossed that this is amazing!

She’s Faking It by Kristin Rockaway

Kristin Rockaway is back again! (I may or may not have been singing that to the Backstreet Boys song, in my best AJ voice) How To Hack A Heartbreak was a favorite read of mine last year and I am so happy she has a new title coming out. She’s Faking It releases in June, but I have a copy via Netgalley and am so excited. This follows Bree who is a college dropout, working as a food deliverer (think, Grubhub). She’s living a chill life. Bree posts something on Instagram and quickly finds herself as a quickly growing self help Influencer. I think Kristin Rockaway is perfect for this type of story. I loved what she did with How To Hack a Heartbreak, so I’m really looking forward to what she has in store for us with Bree’s story.

Blind Date With A Book Boyfriend by Lucy Eden

Blind Date With A Book Boyfriend sounds so good Babes. Our heroine is Jordyn who flies from New York to Culver City, California to interview for the job of a lifetime. She walked into The Bookstore looking for a steamy romance or two, to pass the time before her big meeting (as one does) and walks out with books and Mike. Mike is this gorgeous, sweet cinnamon roll of a guy! This one is already out and is only about 166 pages. I have been devouring novellas like candy lately and am really looking forward to getting into this one. I mean, look at this amazing cover. I’m in love already!

 

Okay friends, those are the reads at the top of my Spring reading list. Let me know what some of your Spring reading plans are. I would love to know. We will chat again soon.

xx.

Here’s the thing; I want to do Everything sometimes and here’s the thing with trying to do all of the things; it is exhausting! I am getting better at telling myself it is okay to take a break, which is hard to do in this online world of trying to be relevant and all. During your days off, someone else is posting pretty pictures, someone else’s Youtube video went up, someone else posted an amazing blog post. This past week I have been in a rut creatively, totally uninspired.. but I realized I miss blogging. I was in a weird fog where I didn’t know what to post on here anymore, or if I even wanted to. I thought and thought about it though, and I came to the conclusion that- even with my blog, the only pressure I was experiencing, was pressure I was putting on myself. Let’s be real here: if you’re paying for it, it’s yours to do with it as you will! So, that’s what I’ve decided to do.

I love talking about the books I’m reading and the bookish community has so many platforms available for us to do so; Do I think it’s doable to talk about your passion on more than one of these platforms? Absolutely. I think what I’m learning is key though, is to remember that reading is fun.  It’s something I love to my core. It’s been a faithful companion through some of the most difficult times in my life. Anything that goes along with my love of reading, should remain fun as well, or it’s not getting any of my attention.

I found myself conflicted on what content to put where; what should I talk about on Youtube? What should I put on my Blog? Which platform has more of a following? That’s the one specific content should go versus the other. It just got to be too much.

All of this to say, cheers to doing what we want in 2020. FallingForRomance will continue to consist of me gushing about romances I’ve been reading, but it will also have my random thoughts, crazy ideas, moments of failure, lessons learned and all the things in between. I want to engage more with my readers, and disappearing for months at a time doesn’t help with that! Also, I think it’s cool when creators I follow, share more of themselves.  We are in fact, more than just people who love to read.

I am so excited to see where 2020 leads. I hope your February has been amazing. I would really love to know any tips or advice you have for when you’re feeling creatively in a rut. Let me know.

xx.

Hello Friends, it has been a minute since I logged on. December wore me out just a bit, but I am getting my life together and am excited to get some content posted for you all. Let’s catch up.

I can’t complain about 2020 so far. I am not overwhelming myself with a bunch of goals I probably won’t stick with or a list of resolutions. I am taking life day by day and it has been pretty chill. I have one big self-loving project I am working on and so far, so good: and that is to cut back on my screen time.

I have chatted with my therapist about this a few times and she asked me something/put something in my head the first time we talked about it: she basically told me to ask myself how I feel after I log off social media. A lightbulb went off in my head at that moment, months ago when she said this. I began to really pay attention to this and reflect on it with each meaningless scroll I found myself partaking in.

Here’s the thing: I kept using the fact that a good 98% of the accounts I follow on Instagram are book accounts. Instagram is this world where no one is posting about the really crappy day they had, how their face broke out or that they still can’t fit into their favorite jeans. Everything is perfectly filtered and we’re all living our best lives on there! The bookish corner though is not exempt for turning your okay mood, into a crappy one.

I love, love, love my account-the friendships I’ve built-the opportunities that have presented themselves-thanks to Instagram, but, I am giving myself 40 minutes a day to be part of it. I have to make those 40 minutes count, because once my phone lets me know that limit is reached, it’s a wrap until the next day.

I have been consciously paying attention to when I am grabbing my phone and why-it boils down to habit and boredom. When things are quiet and not a lot is going on, I have this natural reaction to grab my phone. Stuck in traffic? Grab my phone for a quick scroll. In the line at the grocery store? Grab my phone for a quick scroll. You know what else is on my phone? My Kindle App, Scribd, Overdrive, Audible and my  word search games-apps that would allow me to squeeze in more reading and stretch my brain a bit. When my therapist planted the bug in my mind and had me thinking of how I felt when I log off social media, in all honesty, it was shitty. It is this constant rat race against the algorithm and stupid rules to try and get noticed, gain followers and real talk! It’s exhausting!

I think my biggest issue personally, is I grew up at a time where I remember computers becoming what they are, I have seen the evolution of cell phones. I know what life is like without these things, so it’s like if I lived without them once upon a time, why is it so hard to put them down and do something without them in tow now? I find myself so wrapped up in Instagram stories, and meaningless scrolling that I am not paying attention to the moments in real life, passing me by. I don’t want to miss anymore of those moments. I want to see how much more reading I can get done if I fill those few moments with reading a few pages rather than scrolling for no reason-and stopping in a crappy mood.  I think in the end, I’ll be better for it. I am 33 and not afraid to say that even at 33, it’s hard not to get wrapped up in comparison; what am I not doing? why am I not growing as quickly as__________ I am hoping that my project gets me into the headspace of, it’s for fun and it doesn’t matter. I am not getting paid to do this, it’s a hobby, it’s for fun. I don’t need to be so involved at all times of the day.

So, here is to doing things with more intention, and a meaningful 40 minutes a day.

xx.

“He was standing in the shadows and I swear the earth moved when our eyes met. I knew. Right then I knew it was him and it was always supposed to be him.”

Spirit Bound is book 2 in the paranormal suspense romance series by Christine Feehan, the Sea Haven series. Full of obsession, hidden identities and special psychic abilities, this romance between Judith and Stefan was a great follow up to Water Bound. Stefan Prakenskii is the brother to the hero, Lev, from the previous book. In the beginning we see Stefan in a jail cell with this guy Jean-Claude who obsesses over photos of this woman-Judith. Situations transpire, Stefan busts out of jail and makes his way to Sea Haven where Judith resides. This is their romance.

Let’s start with the cons and end on a positive. I only had two issues with this book: the first being the hero’s use of the word exotic when describing the Japanese heroine’s eyes as exotic. I’m not sure, but I feel like this a term we are tired of seeing used to describe Asian women. It bothered me. If it shouldn’t, please let me know.

My second issue was that I felt like it did drag slightly. I think this book could have been 30ish pages shorter than what it was.

This book felt pretty on brand with the previous one: the hero comes into Sea Haven, falls for the heroine and makes it his mission to protect her from the circumstances going on around her after doing a little digging. So much of this book lies in Stefan posing as Thomas to Judith, but I appreciated that it wasn’t the entire book-your girl was getting confused with both names being tossed around. Just like with the previous book, the hero is written as this big tough guy, assassin who becomes smitten with the heroine because she sees the real him and makes him feel-something he has been unable to do before.

I liked the way the author wove the story together-specifically the heroine’s history and how things played out in the end. Jean-Claude, who we see Stefan in jail with in the beginning of the book is responsible for the death of the heroine’s brother-she loved Jean-Claude but was unaware of the man he truly was. This obviously is a huge factor for the conflict with Stefan hiding so much of himself from her.

I think it was a solid second book in the series.  I’m excited to move onto the third book.

xx