#Blogtober What We Don’t Talk About as Bloggers


Blogging is work! There are days where it feels like literally all day I have been on the computer writing blog posts. Don’t get me wrong, I love blogging. I love having a space where I can chat about the genre I love and whatever else I decide to post, but I won’t sit here and act like it doesn’t feel like a job (that I don’t get paid for) sometimes. What helps me out is taking advantage of those days when I don’t have a lot going on and knocking out posts and scheduling them ahead of time.  That way, I’m always ahead of the game and as those scheduled posts come out, I can continue typing new ones. This also allows me some breathing room. If I have a few days where I’m swamped with homework or just not in the mood to type up any posts, I’m already taken care of because I put in the work already.


It sucks when you put your heart and soul into a post and when it goes live, it doesn’t get the response you were expecting. It sucks. There are tons of posts out there chatting about how to capture an attention grabbing headline. Maybe it was the headline that didn’t pull people in. Maybe it’s the graphics. It can be so many different things. All you can do is keep pushing though. Write another post and put your heart and soul into it. At the end of the day, as long as you are happy with the content you are creating, that’s all that matters. If it bothers you that much, reach out to someone and ask for constructive criticism on what you can do better to improve. Research Research Research! The information from successful bloggers is out there. Don’t let it go to waste. See what has gotten them to where they are.

It’s not enough to just be a blogger anymore. You have to use social media *cough* Instagram to boost your blog. So much for laying off of social media for a while, right? Instagram has changed everything. It is such a critical tool for people with platforms. Your favorite Podcast, probably has an Instagram. Your favorite YouTuber probably has their Instagram linked in the description box of their latest video. It is a cool way to get more behind the scenes, daily life of someone whose content you enjoy but it’s also a way for them to encourage you to check out their latest podcast episode or youtube video. It’s the exact same for blogging. If you’re posting on your blog just for you, that’s different. If you’re posting on your blog with the intentions of growing a following, you have to put yourself out there as a creator. The traffic isn’t just going to come you. You have to promote yourself. Remember my first point of how it feels like a job..


The online creator world period, has a way of making you feel like you have to pick a lane and stay in it! This is something I struggle with. I’ve created my space and I have moments where I want to include content that’s totally unrelated to my normal, but I’m hesitant because I’ve gained a following based off the content I’ve already put out there. It can be nerve-racking to think about switching it up and putting something new, and your followers not liking it. Like, ‘we came here for romance, so what is this post about recipes here for?’ Do you just rebrand what you already have out there? Do you start over, something new?


These are just a few of the things I feel like we don’t talk about as bloggers. I would love to get your perspective on my topics or thoughts you’ve been having.





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Hi I'm Bree, an Air Force Veteran turned Stay At Home Mom, full time college student and lover of romance.

8 thoughts on “#Blogtober What We Don’t Talk About as Bloggers

  1. I’ve recently found your YouTube channel and also follow you on Twitter and Insta (I think – I’ll be checking to make sure) and while I came for the romance books, I’ve enjoyed all your content. I like the day in the life vlogs. And with others I follow on various social media platforms, maybe I followed for one thing, but I stay because I like the creator and everything they’re providing. And personally I like seeing a channel grow and expand. Channels I have unfollowed was because it became stagnant or everything seemed exactly the same and too curated and fake.

    Anyway, I’m glad I found your various platforms and enjoy the content you’re providing!


    1. These are all such true points. ESPECIALLY the low engagement on a post you’re proud of. It happens to *everyone* and it always feels like a missed opportunity that leaves you wondering how it could’ve went better. For me, I’m constantly struggling with the optimal time to post, since WordPress one time and my Instagram says a complete other time.

      The life of a blogger. We somehow keep chugging!


      1. Blogging really is shooting a shot in the dark! You put your all into something and it’s up to the world if they choose to engage and if they do how they interpret it but it’s still so therapeutic and fun. You’re right, we just keep chugging! Keep putting content out there

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    2. Thank you SO much!!! Just what I needed. With Youtube I don’t want to put myself in a box but it also feels like you have to have a niche. I love daily life vlogs and have been weird about how people feel about them. Thank you for your feedback and support! Means alot


  2. I hear ya on this. And it’s why I get so frustrated with the whole thing. I don’t have a specific niche. I read different things, and they’re usually not that latest popular book. So I just keep chugging along, hoping one day it will just click.


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